“Because everyone knows this: That the impossible happens once to each of us.” ~The Impossible Lives of Greta Wells, by Andrew Sean Greer (TILGW) “You can just say no. You don’t have to give a reason.” It’s May, 2014, I’m 44 years old, and my pal is talking me through the mechanics of turning down a particular invitation. And although I am a little embarrassed to be this far into the game to be learning her lesson, I also remember with painful clarity every “no” I’ve ever uttered. Maybe that's hard to believe, but I swear: I’m telling the truth. *** If you had asked where I lived back in the early 2000’s, I would have said on “King of Curls Way” and you would have known that was just off Freeport Blvd., across from Raley’s, on the street with the 24-hour hair braiding shop at the corner. Mine was the fifth house in on the left, the one with a combination of wooden shakes, blue siding, and white trim. A charming original 960 square foot 2 bedroom/1 bath 1939 Hollyw...